Befoer I get started, I hope you will all come out of lurking and comment both on our topic for today, as well as leaving a note about your favorite charities. I'd like to know where your hearts are when you think of giving, and I bet others would, too.
So, on to today's topic. How do we teach our children to give? I'll share what Bud and I do well, and what I think we could do better. Then I hope you'll jump in with your own experience and idea.
Our children, Luke, 9 and Peyton, 7, receive allowance each week. Romy doesn't get allowance yet, she's only 9 months old and we frown on eating money around here. Of the allowance they receive, 15% is earmarked for giving. We discuss giving opportunities with them, and guide them toward appropriate ways to give the money from their allowance. We try to find ideas that will resonate with them as children, so that they can relate to the issue and understand the impact their giving can have. Some areas that our children have given have been to our church, to Samaritan's Purse's Operation Christmas Child, and to sponsor a child through Compassion International.
We talk about the importance of giving, and we teach about it from the Bible, as we are Christians. We also constantly talk about how wealthy we are - not in U.S. terms, necessarily, but certainly in terms of the world. Bud and I have both done mission work overseas, and share stories with our kids about the huge discrepancy between the way they live and the children we've seen in other countries live. This is not to create guilt, but to engender a sense of responsibility that comes with our many blessings.
What we don't do is show them our example of giving. Our kids see the time we give to various volunteer situations, but they don't see us give our money. That is typically done quietly with a check in the mail and not really discussed with the children. I think that is something that probably ought to change, as we all know our kids are more likely to do what they see us doing, rather than what we tell them to do. Don't believe it? Check this out.
So, what do you do to teach your children about giving? What would you like to do that you don't? What have you done that has totally bombed? I hope you'll comment, and remember to share your favorite charity!